Fr. Bob Warren's This Week Reflection: How Much Did You Care?
How Much Did You Care?
people used to come to Mother Teresa. They wanted to get involved in
her work. Mother Teresa, being a wise woman, could tell if they had
what it took to work with her Sisters. Most of the time, she would smile
and tell them gently, "Go back to your home and find your own
other words, bloom where you are planted. Tend to the needs of others
where you live. The rich man in the gospel is not condemned because he
is rich. He is condemned because he never saw Lazarus, who lived out his
miserably poor life right outside his gate. When he did see him, it
was too late.
one of the most terrifying dangers in having possessions is that they
threaten us with blindness. The sin of the rich man was not that he
ordered Lazarus removed from his property. He didn't. It was not that
he kicked Lazarus or shouted obscenities at him as he passed. He didn't.
The sin of the rich man is that he simply never noticed Lazarus. He
accepted him as part of the landscape of his life. The sin of the rich
man was that he accepted, without question, the fact that Lazarus was
poor and he was rich. The sin of the rich man was not a sin of
commission, which is doing something he should not have done. The sin
of the rich man was a sin of omission, which is not doing something that
he should have done.
sin of the rich man was basking in his own personal wealth, and not
lifting a finger to help Lazarus in his dire need. The sin of the rich
man was the same sin that is being committed over and over today. It is
this sin that is beginning to cause grave concern. Not only because of
what it is doing to the poor, but also because of what it is doing to
society. If a free society cannot help the many who are poor, it cannot
save the few who are rich. In other words, our lack of concern for the
poor is destroying not only the poor, but also the very moral fabric of
Lazaruses of the world do not always want material help. Sometimes
they need emotional and spiritual support, an ear to listen, a hand to
touch. Find your own Calcutta; it is probably nearer than you ever
imagined. Raise your eyes to see the Lazaruses among us.
want to tell you about a young man, Jeff, a resident of St.
Christopher's Inn, a ministry of the Franciscan Friars of the Atonement
here at Graymoor, which serves as a temporary homeless shelter for men
that facilitates drug and alcohol treatment. Jeff was mandated by a
judge to go into a drug recovery program. He was uncooperative and
incorrigible. Jeff would normally be asked to leave, but we cut him
some slack because if he left, he would go to jail. But he was still a
problem client. It was a very cold winter and a company had given a
large consignment of blankets to the Inn, more than we could use. We
decided to take some blankets to the city and give them out to the
homeless. A friar and five men went in the van to distribute the
blankets, but by some mistake, Jeff was included. When they arrived at
the location, a large crowd of homeless gathered around the van. When
all the blankets were given out, the men got back in the van to return
to Graymoor. Jeff was in the front seat next to the Friar, and it had
started to snow. When the Friar looked down, Jeff had no shoes on. The
Friar asked, "Jeff, where are your shoes?" Jeff answered, "I gave a
man a blanket, but he had no shoes, so I gave him mine." Jeff had found
his own Calcutta.
was a gospel moment, and from that time on, Jeff's whole attitude
changed. He started to cooperate with the program. Today, he is
happily married with two children.
the question is, does your heart go out to others? Or are you just
nice to the beautiful people, to the educated, the sophisticated and the
smart? What about others? Those who bore you or those you simply
cannot stand? Those who ask not for money or food, but for your time,
compassion and understanding? For your comfort, few, if any of you,
will be asked by the Lord to sell what you possess and give it to the
poor. But for your discomfort, every single one of you will be asked by
the Lord, how much did you care, and for whom?