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Fr. Bob's Reflection for the 24th Sunday in Ordinary Time
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The Gospel opens today with a straight on question
from Peter ‑ How many times are we to forgive? It is an interesting
question for us all. The question requires us to take stock of ourselves
as human beings and as Christians when we hear the question ‑ How many
times must I forgive?
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We remember more than 9/11 because that day was not a
singular act of evil but rather it came on the heels of a spate of other
such attacks on planes, ships, Embassies, trains, Churches, Synagogues,
Mosques and marketplaces. When we think of all the people whose lives
were ended or forever disrupted and they were of all religions and
nationalities, it is tempting to rationalize or to categorize such acts
in a class of their own, unforgivable.
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So if we go by this Gospel, is Christ asking the
mother to forgive the drunk driver who killed her child? Is He asking us
to forgive every Judas who has ever betrayed us? I would like to make
an important observation here; we have to distinguish between crime and
sin. You punish crime and you forgive sin. Forgiveness is not condoning,
we may forgive without approving of the offense. Forgiving is not
forgetting, some wounds are simply unforgettable.
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Some years ago, Saint Pope John Paul went to visit
Mehmit Ali Agca, the man who tried to assassinate him. He held his hand
and forgave him but he did not ask the Italian Government to release
him. The Pope forgave the sin within the crime.
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Now I would ask you to think is there anyone in your
life who will not forgive you? I know a man who is an alcoholic and in
his drinking days was abusive to his wife and children. He shamed and
embarrassed them, poisoned their minds, turned their hearts and left
them with many scars. His children have grown and left home and he went
into rehab and is doing well. He has not had a drink in years, he has a
great job, he is a good husband but his children, disgusted from years
of abuse, want no part of him. Before he dies he is desperate for their
forgiveness. They are either unwilling or unable to forgive so what does
he do?
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What about the people who will not forgive us? The
people we may have wounded. We can do one of two things, we can nurse
our guilt, turn into ourselves and destroy ourselves or else we can turn
to Jesus. When others will not forgive us, Jesus comes in and takes on
their identity. He steps into the place of those we have hurt and he
tells us ‑ all is forgiven.
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When people will not forgive, Jesus will. When people
cannot forgive, Jesus will. When people are unable to forgive, Jesus
will. Just look at the Gospel, they tell us the Shepherd left
ninety‑nine sheep to look for the one or the Gospel of the Prodigal Son
when the son repented, the Father went to meet him. He gave him hugs and
kisses and said "all is forgiven."
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Some of us need to forgive and others need to be
forgiven. This is, I suggest, why He invented the sacrament of
confession. It is the place Jesus has set up where you and I are
reconciled to the Father. It is the one place where we can be reassured
during our broken and dying moment that the Lord will come and say "Go
in peace, your sins are forgiven. I on behalf of your mother, your
brother, your daughter or anyone who will not forgive you, I will
forgive."
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If you are among those who find it hard to forgive, I
would like to repeat the words I left you with last week of Archbishop
Tutu of South Africa who lived with apartheid. He said "sometimes the
victim has to forgive in order just to live. You cannot carry around
resentment forever, sometimes for our own sake, we just have to let go."
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Yours in Christ,
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Fr. Robert Warren, S.A.
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Spiritual Director
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